''The real definition of friendship is mutuality'' ~Berrynilla~
Friends are easy to make, only our intents matter. Life is full of different personalities, and several of them stumble across our way in a life-time, leaving us to choose the ones we want closer to us and the ones we'd like to be farther away. Every encounter has a purpose and it's left for us to discover which purpose it has.
Friends have been made since time immemorial, and it continues that way. However, a lot of friends have been lost simply because we fail to define the type of friendship, hence, the purpose is lost.
Overtime, opposite sex have engaged in strong, intimate friendship, that leaves people wondering if they are just friends or something more. And most times the truth is, they are #justfriends, because everything they share and do is mutual. However, it has been discovered that out of the 100% of opposite sex friendship 80% of one of the two parties, and at times the both, fall in love with each other or their friend. But because they fail to express their feelings, hence, re-defining their friendship, they end up losing each other to some stranger who eventually come their way.
No matter the kind of friendship you share, always be sure to define the motive behind it, even if you don't have the intentions from the onset, ones it comes, be sure to express yourself.
You might want to ask yourself, what is the worst thing that can happen?
It's either you lose your 'just friend' or earn a life-time friend.
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